Sunday, February 21, 2010

Sling...gendong..









Hmm..aku rasa tak terlambat rasanyer nak entrykan gambar2 si Najla yang digendong oleh mama ngan Sidah. Gambar2 nie aku snap masa bln Dec.tahun lepas, alkisahnyer si Najla merengek2,sudahnyer mama bwk dia bersiar2 kat depan rumah tu. Si Sidah pun tak melepaskan peluang mengendong anak sedaranyer nie sekali. Mama kata masa aku ketika kecik dulu memang selalu mama gendong,mama kata sampai tertidur2 aku dlm gendongan tu..Syok gaknyer ekk..Kain gendong mestilah kain batik lepas jawa,sebab kata mama kain nie kuat kalau diikat kat belakang. Kata mama masa zaman kecik2 dia dulu nenek pegi menoreh pun guna kaedah gendong untuk membawa anak2 kecik mereka ke kebun getah. Hmm..betapa perit orang dulu2 jaga anak, sampai nak pegi kebun getah pun bawak anak sekali. Sekarang nie kaedah gendong nie dah dipermodenkan, cara ikatan pun selamat dan mudah digunakan. Walaupun mcm tu aku belum lagi mengendongkan Najla guna kain batik nie,mcm segan pun ada..ada x ada aku bwk dia berjalan naik stroller saje hehehe..


Following are some of the advantages of "wearing" your baby (from "The Baby Book" by William and Martha Sears):


It's convenient. You can breastfeed discretely in a sling while working, getting things done around the house, shopping or eating in a restaurant. If you have a baby who wants to be held all the time, this is an easy way to meet her needs while doing other things.
It helps moms care for older siblings. Carrying your baby in a sling can give you the mobility to care for your older children.
It helps some babies to breastfeed better. Some babies, particularly those who are tense or tend to arch their backs, breastfeed better while moving. Also, babies who are slow to gain weight (for no apparent reason) have been known to gain better if carried in a sling for several hours a day, since proximity to mom encourages babies to eat more frequently.
It reduces crying and colic. A 1986 study of 99 mother-infant pairs (reported in Pediatrics) showed that carrying babies at least three hours a day reduces crying and fussing 43% during the day and 51% at night. Babies are happier because they have less need to cry, and parents enjoy their babies more as a result.
It enhances learning. Carried babies have enhanced visual and auditory alertness, and increased "quiet alertness" times. Carrying a baby promotes cognitive development and speech development, since babies are exposed to more experiences and conversations.
Carried babies are involved in their parents' world. They participate in life, rather than see it as a spectator.
Carrying your baby promotes bonding and enhances parents' feelings of competence. A higher frequency of feeding and touching stimulates mothering hormones, and frequent carrying encourages and speeds the development of a mutual reading of each other's cues.

Saturday, February 20, 2010

I got surprised....



Finally apa yang aku idam2kan dapat juga, hmm..nak tau tak apa dia? Haa.. Pasal entry semalam, pasal handphone tu,..akhirnya aku dapat jugak..Alahai..bestnyer.. Thanx to my lovely asben.. syg sgt kat abg... Tau2 je masa nak kemas katil terselit je present tu kat bawah bantal, terkejut sgt..sekali bukak handphone!! apalagi aku terus meluru lari dan terus peluk asbenku sambil kiss2 kat pipi dia..dia just sengih jer sambil layan facebook dia..wat derk..ceh!!konon2 buat2 tak tau la tu. Tah bile masa pulak dia beli tu.. Aku speechless tak tau nak kata apa tapi rasa bersalah ada gak, aku punya prinsip tak suka membebankan orang..tapi orang nak bagi kebas jelah ekk.. Kalau ikutkan hati nak Blackberry,tapi Blueberry pun oke gak support Malaysian product la katakan.. Sampai ari nie aku still malu2 lagi kat asben pasal present tu,..segan tak penah dapat hadiah yang best camni..aritu sebelum besday dia bagi kek keju, nie handphone pulak..sayang abg.. Muah!Muah!..

Friday, February 19, 2010

Mari Berjalan2..

Hurmm..semalam aku dan asben pegi jalan ke Jb, tujuan nak pegi KWSP sama nak jalan2la..kami tiba Jb pukul 1pm..Apa2 hal mesti cari makan dulu, asben ajak aku makan kat ZZ seafood..kata asben aku tmpt tu famous..asben aku order Mee Rebus Ayam..aku lak makan Nasi Ayam Penyet dgn ABC..leh tahan gakla. Pas makan kami cari masjid nak solat zohor..Afterthat baru ke KWSP. Sampai sana punyerlah ramai manusia,nasib kami dapat nombor tak jauh sgt,seb Najla princess ku sorang tu tak meragam,hepi adalah..siap menyusu lagi,nak pegi toilet,takut kerusi aku org ambik,so malu x malu aku selak jugaklah 'pon..pon' nak bagi Najla menyusu, tapi asben ada tolong cover.. Bila dah siap sume urusan asben ajak pegi Sutera Mall, kat sana saje window shopping,tak beli ape just tgk2 ajelah,sampai kat kedai nset mataku tertancap kat nset buatan malaysia CSL..kool jugak features ngan model nset tu,sebijik blackberry,cuma namanyer jer blueberry..tapi asben aku ada niat nak belikan aku sebijik..hati aku berbunga2..aku harap dapatla dia belikan,kalo boleh dapatlah dia beli time tu jugak...lawa tu,berkenan sangat nie lagipun dia ada cakap nak belikan sebijik handphone baru bagi menggantikan handphone ku yang sudah rosak speakernyer tu.. Pas usha harga, kitorg pun balik dan singgah diMcd tapi beli drivethru jer, makan dlm keta.. Tapi x puas la jalan2 kali ni kejap sangat, sebab asben aku taknak terseremapak jammed kat bandaraya nanti,ikutkan jiwa aku yang suka berjalan dan bersoping ni memang tak puas nak berjalan2 lagi..geram pun ada kat asben, dah tu aku ingat asben dok usha blueberry tu cam iya2 ingat dapatlah sebijik, hampeh.. tapi x apalah len kali aku beli jiwa dia,mana tau dapt sebijik..hehehe.